Taylor Gudenkauf
English 1101
24 September 2016
Prof. Young
- How does Hal use blame to protect Cully and himself? What is Hal trying to protect himself from?
After learning about Cully's drunken state on the school's premises, Hal is very worried about his son's actions. He is very angry and afraid that his son will end up "absorbing all his own failures, and he prayed about it constantly" (Steinke 148). Hal is living in the past; he idolizes and worships Cully. He blames himself for Cully's poor choices and does not make him take responsibility for his actions. As Hal remembers the glory days between him and his son, he fondly recalls how Cully could bring him "out of his funk" (Steinke 130).
Hal wants to protect Cully from ending up like him and having his glory days be in the past. When Hal recollected his past, "the feeling was of looking at relics of someone who'd died. His son still had all of that glory, the bright, athletic blue, unfaded," (Steinke 148). Therefore, Hal will do everything in his power to protect Cully.
Hal blames Willa for that night at the Lawbourne's. After he confessed to his father that him and one of his friends both slept with had sexual intercourse with her, Hal said that "there always were and always would be girls like that" (Steinke 149). He is trying to protect his reputation by protecting his son's reputation. His son's behavior reflects upon him. He wants his son to have a brighter future than his own and to relish every minute of high school.
- Discuss Dex's mother's reaction to learning that perhaps Dex attended the party. Who does she blame? What does her response reveal about her character?
Dex's mother "trusted him too much" to ask him where he had been the night of the party. She thinks that the "boys need to learn that not everything comes to them-they're not entitled. They need to stop spending so much time staring at the Internet, thinking they can have whatever they want." (Stench 179). Boys need to control their hormones and understand that girls are in charge of their body. It is not a girl's job to give a guy whatever he wants right when he wants it. Men need to stop making excuses and have discipline. Dex's mother tells her friend, "My Dex knows how to control himself, no matter what present he's offered." (Steinke 180). She thinks her son behaves better compared to his peers. Dex's mother sees Willa as the victim and blames the boys, more specifically their hormones, for the rape.
Dex's mother distrusts men. She feels that they let their hormones control their lives and overpower their decisions. She believes that men need to own up to their actions more than they already do and not expect women to please them sexually on demand. Dex's mother is a feminist.
- Dex begins to befriend Willa. Is his friendship genuine? Why does he befriend Willa? Does he blame himself for what happens to her?
Dex befriending Willa is genuine. Although he feels guilty about bringing drugs to the party and not being able to protect her, he truly wants to be her friend. Dex had a crush on Willa before the rape, and he still does now. Dec tries to look out for Willa by finding out what actually happened that night so he can help her piece back together her memory. Dex also tries to find out what rumors are being spread. Despite Dex feeling guilty about that night, he does not blame himself completely for what happened. He realizes that Cully is the one to blame.
Dex wants to get close to Willa and be there for her; "He did't care what Dani said-she didn't know for sure what Willa would want." (Steinke 211). Dex becomes Willa's partner for the English project. He hopes that by spending time with her on this project he will be able to support her. Dex goes out of his way and gets her flowers - "a nice bunch of assorted ones he didn't recognize except for the roses" (Steinke 212). The flowers could be seen as a silent peace offering for that night, or it could be seen as Dex trying to get close to Willa. Dex is infatuated with Willa; "her beauty rushed at him all at once, the intensity of her eyes flaming up in front of him." (Steinke 213). Although Dex feels guilty, he genuinely wants to express his feelings for Willa and strengthen his relationship with her.
Works Cited
Steinke, Rene. Friendswood. New York: Riverhead, 2014. Print.